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Coffee Shop Convo, NLP

 

I spend a lot of my time in bookstore cafes, and over the past few years, I've noticed that the most frequent topic of conversation is Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). I think the topic is fascinating....but for a different reason than everybody else: I think it's fascinating because for the life of me I can't figure out whether NLP is bogus or not. 

I suspect that it's rooted in truths and that the claims are exaggerated after that. But here's my big question: if NLP supposedly gives you such advantages in life (i.e., the ability to control people's thoughts and decisions), then why are so many people NLP proponents I meet aimless, directionless, unemployed "businessmen"/"entrepreneurs"?





Eye Cues

Plus the eye cues dont' even work every time. Like for lefthanded people. And even if the person is righthanded they're not guaranteed to work. I have had no results with NLP.

it's so hard to say because

it's so hard to say because so many of the people advocating for nlp teach seminars that you have to pay to go to, so who knows if it woks or if its a new scam a psuedoscience with SOME real scientific backing.

Real NLP

Hey Rick,

I actually searched for you on Google after reading your article "If I'm surrounded by so much porn, why am I so sad." When I got to your website, I noticed your article on NLP. As it turns out, I am certified in both NLP and hypnosis... but my job is Alpha Male Life Coaching. I teach entrepreneurs how to make silly amounts of money and seduce ridiculously attractive women. Anyway, I’m in Las Vegas. Have a look at my website www.drawkkwast.com and let me know if you would like to meet up some time for what I am sure would be some very interesting conversation.

-Drawk

Maybe

 Hey Drawk.  I might take you up on that offer one day. Busy the next couple weeks, but let's get in touch late Feb.... -Rick

Research

Well, the research shows that NLP is wrong in concept. It shows that it has overwhelmingly failed the experimental studies that have tested the claims of NLP authors. That was in the 80s.

Now it is used as an archetypical example of modern pseusdocience in university courses that help to distinguish between science and pseudoscience.

It is also referred to in sociology of religion research as a new age, new alternative religion, similar to scientology (a de-centralized version).

Most recently, in a survey of over 100 experts in behavioural change, it has been rated as highly discredited:

This article has its own perspective, but it quotes the references in the reference section very accurately:

http://knol.google.com/k/neurolinguistic-programming#

The video in the pseudoscience section is also a good indicator that neurolinguistic programing is really just as pseudoscientific as it sounds.

Wow. It's used as an example

Wow. It's used as an example of pseudoscience? Any idea which courses are using it as that?

Sure The university courses

Sure

The university courses that use examples of pseudoscience are often entitled such as: Scientific Literacy, Scientific Thinking in Psychology, and Philosophy of Science.



Why Do Companies Purposely Misspell Their Own Name?

I just don't get it. Why do some companies purposely misspell their own names? Will somebody with Kraft or Tastee Freez please explain to me how the misspelling increases business? 





Then shouldn't you be 'Rick

Then shouldn't you be 'Rick Lacks'? Just sayin'.

Aren't intentional

Aren't intentional misspellings easier to trademark? Craft would be harder to trademark than Kraft. Although in that specific case you have a simpler reason: James L. Kraft started the business.

Good point, Counselor Jimmy.

Good point, Counselor Jimmy. I can still fault Mr. Kraft for not changing his name, but, yeah, that thing about trademark makes sense.



Political Letter from a 10-Year-Old

I just found this letter I wrote to my Senator when I was ten years old. The first sentence is pretty dull, but things pick up from there. Easily the most persuasive letter I’ve ever written. I present to you the letter in full:

October 5, 1992

Dear Congressman Levin:

Right now my class is studying some of the hazards of our state, country, continent, and even our world. For example. Population density, deforestation and POLLUTION!! Now let’s pretend there was some kind of fish in our Great Lakes that had the main ingredient for a cure for AIDS and it gets caught in some pollution, for example pop bottle rings or plastic bags, and became extinct. Then imagine if your son or daughter got AIDS. You would be not very happy. So I’m asking if you could make some kind of law saying you can’t dump any more trash in the Great Lakes.

Sincerely,
Ricky Lax and Lone Pine Elementary School Students







Hard at Work at TRYST at Wynn

 

Okay, okay, I know this looks like we're just having fun (pictured is my roommate and my friend Sylvia from Chicago), but I'm actually hard at work here.  I'm writing a story about Pickup Artists, and we followed them into Tryst at Wynn to watch their game.  And now it's time to write about it. 





Why is your hair gray?

Why is your hair gray?

How many blondes does it

How many blondes does it take to screw in a light bulb ???

    How Many?

 

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How Many?

101, one to hold the bulb

101, one to hold the bulb and 100 to turn the house around



Funniest Bench in the History of the World

 

The #1 FUNNIEST BENCH in the WORLD. Came across this in Bucktown, Chicago. The best, best, best part is that the slogan is, Because when you do one thing, you do it right.





The poorly-conceived ad is

The poorly-conceived ad is just further proof that when you only do one thing, you do it right.





The BOOK on FACEBOOK, my review of Ben Mezrich's Accidental Billionaires

This week I reviewed Ben Mezrich's book Accidental Billionaires for Las Vegas Weekly.  You can read the whole review HERE, and the first few paragraphs here: 

Even Ben Mezrich’s fiercest critics have to admit, the guy knows how to pick a good story. In 2003 Mezrich grew famous after writing about the MIT blackjack team (Bringing Down the House), and this year he’s found an even bigger story to tell: the creation of Facebook.

Maybe “found” isn’t the right word; the story was up for grabs. But Mezrich was the one who grabbed it, and now he’s reaping the benefits. Kevin Spacey snapped up the movie rights before the author had even completed his first draft. And having read the book, I can see why; The Accidental Billionaires: The Founding of Facebook—A Tale of Sex, Money, Genius and Betrayal has the makings of a summer blockbuster: swank Silicon Valley parties, gorgeous Ivy League coeds and an unlikely hero: Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg.

In Accidental Billionaires, Mezrich reveals that Facebook began as a website that simply allowed Harvard students to vote on which of their female classmates was hottest. According to Mezrich, the first, second and third hottest girls at Harvard all lived together. The last four digits of their room’s phone number were 3-8-2-5 (F-U-C-K). “The Harvard housing office,” explains Mezrich, “was notorious for bizarre little pranks like that. Putting kids with similar names in the same room … there was a Burger and Fries, and at least two Blacks and Whites … Someone probably needed to get fired.”







A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again

 

I'm halfway though David Foster Wallace's essay "A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again." Easily the most clever thing I've ever read. How does somebody so young know so much about so many things? Reading Wallace makes me want to take even more risks in my writing... (Reading Wallace is also discouraging...cause you know you'll never be that good...)





He is my writing idol.

He is my writing idol.

 why him and not glenn beck?

 why him and not glenn beck?

 why him and not glenn beck?

 why him and not glenn beck?



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